{"id":9979,"date":"2026-10-09T21:57:12","date_gmt":"2026-10-09T21:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/isokovibe.com.ng\/blog\/?p=9979"},"modified":"2026-10-09T22:04:55","modified_gmt":"2026-10-09T22:04:55","slug":"laide-bakare-begs-for-her-sons-safety-after-saying-she-overheard-a-disturbing-instruction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/isokovibe.com.ng\/blog\/laide-bakare-begs-for-her-sons-safety-after-saying-she-overheard-a-disturbing-instruction\/","title":{"rendered":"Laide Bakare Begs for Her Sons&#8217; Safety After Saying She Overheard a Disturbing Instruction"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nollywood actress Laide Bakare says she overheard something that scared her about her sons&#8217; safety at her ex-husband&#8217;s home. Here&#8217;s what she&#8217;s asking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Laide Bakare is asking for help to protect her two sons. The Nollywood actress says she overheard her ex-husband&#8217;s wife telling a child to hurt the boys in a way that wouldn&#8217;t leave marks.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She shared this in a video on Instagram, and it&#8217;s the kind of claim that&#8217;s hard to scroll past.<br \/><br \/>Laide says she was in Saudi Arabia for Umrah when she overheard a conversation at her ex-husband&#8217;s house. According to her, the woman was speaking to one of the boys in the home. The message was to avoid beating her sons in a way their father could notice, and to hold them by the neck instead.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She says she has a recording. But it hasn&#8217;t been made public, so no one outside her circle has heard it.<br \/><br \/>Laide says she&#8217;s complained to her ex-husband several times and nothing has changed. In her telling, he&#8217;s so devoted to his wife that he brushes the complaints aside. She also says he&#8217;s kept the boys away from her as a kind of punishment.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There&#8217;s more. She claims he won&#8217;t let her renew their passports, so she can&#8217;t take them to America or have them live with her.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She admits she stayed quiet for a long time. Social media wasn&#8217;t where she wanted to take this. Her one request is simple: she doesn&#8217;t want her sons living with their stepmother.<br>She also described the woman as pleasant in public but different in private. 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Laide has three children: a daughter from her first marriage and the two boys from her second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ahead of her birthday, she also asked her followers to pray for her sons&#8217; protection. So this has clearly been weighing on her.<br \/><br \/>These are allegations, and nothing has been independently verified. At the time of reporting, her ex-husband hadn&#8217;t responded.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For now, it&#8217;s one mother&#8217;s account and a recording nobody has heard. Whatever the full truth turns out to be, there are two children at the center of this. Their safety is what matters most.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nollywood actress Laide Bakare says she overheard something that scared her about her sons&#8217; safety at her ex-husband&#8217;s home. Here&#8217;s what she&#8217;s asking for. Laide Bakare is asking for help to protect her two sons. 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